Perusing my fave mag, I found (on page 98) of the May 2008 issue a great blurb on some “softest jeans ever”.  I really like the way the fit looks in the picture, and comfort is key!

Deener Slacker Jean in Radon

[deener]s denim styles possess a classic silhouette with additional details that make each style unique, while still maintaining an overall simple and sophisticated feel. The Slacker Jean in Radon is an ultra lightweight, wide leg cut that promises you comfort. The waist is accentuated with tabs on the front and back pockets that secure with leather cracked buttons. The solid color adds a finishing touch to this simple jean that is perfect for the modern fashionista! Fit Tip: This jean runs loose, you may want to size down. Fabric Content: 100% cotton Cut: wide leg, mid-rise Fit: comfortable Inseam: 34 Leg Opening: 24 Rise: 7 1/2 Wash: radon Hardware: leather cracked buttons at front closure, front tabs and back pocket tabs Designer Style No. dlw1136